HAPPY chinese new year everyone. and.. Happy advanced valentines day. i use to spend alot of solo Vday when i was in sec sch and JC. Usually guys will take the chance to buy something, get a bouquet and do something special for the special girl to them. and of cos.. girls will wait to receive something from the guy they hope. theres a lot of ambigiousity among guys and girls de. the constant guessing. why did he get so close to me. why did he ask me out tt day? is it that he likes me? why did she agree to go out with me? why she so nice to me?
Questions after Questions in everyone's head everyday. they make u tink of ur special someone every single moment. tinking if its him when ur fone buzz or.. trying to decipher any deep lying meaning from every single text he or she sent u.
Well... Vday is judgement day alr... its actually a sad day... for pple who are attached. they know for sure they have someone to spend with. they know for sure, the other half will do something special for them. but.. the anticipation usually hype up too muc expectation of the "surprise" alr. so.. usually.. the girl will not be satisfied, and the guy got to spend a bomb and strain all his brain juices to come out with something innovative and impressive.
for pple who are not attached.. GIRLS.. constant waiting for a gift or flowers that.. might nv come. then.. all ur suspicion and hope that the guy like u.. totally.. turn into despair. of cos.. if it comes, happy ending. then.. next year u all will haf problem of attached couple alr. ha!! GUYS.. planning weeks ahead to impress the special girl. but.. trust me. if she likes u, SHE likes u! no matter wad u do. so... all the effort will come to nothing, when.. suddenly.. a simple cold rejection like "eeh, actually u get it wrong, i dun like u. Lets just be purely platonic friends". OUCH... totally hurts like nobody's business..
ok.. all these anti-Vday nonsense not come from me one. i remember one year, reading newspaper. theres an article saying.. more pple break up on Vday rather then get together. mainly due to the girl's disappointment at the guy's effort. SO!!! not my own bullshit ok. got FACTS de. hee....
KK!!! just to warn all of u! dun expect too much. so wun haf big dissappointment. and guys... dun plan too much la. hee.. if a girl gets together with u, becos she is impress and touched by ur effort. its worse.. cos.. she is just.. IMPRESSED and TOUCHED.. she dun even like u maybe. can u maintain the impressive you every single day in future. likelihood is.. will break up soon. hee!
okok... but.. guys dun lazy. if u really like the girl. a dinner at a nice restaurant, spend time together. a bouquet of her fav flowers and a Tangible(meaning can keep, can see. not those food stuff, eat then no more kind) present is nessecary.
KK! hope u all, all have a nice chinese new year and a romantic valentines day!
well... even if future doesnt bodes well. but... a romantic day spent, is a romantic day in memory!
sorry to bore u all with my long essay blog post. :P im glad anyone could read till this sentence.
FoR that, i flash my mega-watt smile to u all! hee...
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